Truth
Agree to disagree
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This is an old common phrase meaning that all parties in a
conflict or dispute are willing to resolve their differences by tolerating the
opposing views while maintaining their own position. It first appeared in print
in 1770 in John Wesley’s sermon, On the
Death of Rev. Mr. George Whitefield, preached November 18, 1770, in which
he acknowledges their doctrinal differences:
“There
are many doctrines of a less essential nature … In these we may think and let
think; we may ‘agree to disagree.’ But, meantime, let us hold fast the
essentials”
Wesley enclosed the phrase in quotation marks indicating
that he was not the originator of it. Wesley’s brother, Charles, deemed to be
the founder of the Methodist Church, attributed the expression to Whitefield
himself, who had used it in a letter to “Mr. B.” twenty years earlier, dated
June 29, 1750:
“After
all, those who will live in peace must agree
to disagree in many things with their fellow-labourers, and not let little
things part or disunite them.”
But the gist of the saying came earlier; also first used by
a minister, John Piggott, in Sermon on Union
and Peace, preach’d to several Congregations, April 17, 1704:
“And now why should we not agree to differ, without either enmity
or scorn?”
There are still times when
Christians don’t look at issues exactly alike. But that doesn’t mean that we
should argue with one another.